Or should I say “Lan-dan-er” in my best faux-”dan saf” accent! Today marks a little milestone in my life, as I celebrate (or commiserate depending if you’re a country lover!) 10 years of living in London. See that? An entire decade! I’ve never lived anywhere that long before. As I approach my 32nd birthday, so much has happened since I squish-squashed my whole world into the smallest room flat you ever saw in Earl’s Court aged just 21 and the scariest thing of all is how quickly the time has gone.
I don’t really remember the conversations I had with my parents when I told them I was moving here, but I do remember Mum saying I’d be lonely. Pah! Loneliness is a small town where unless you were BORN there, you’ll never truly be accepted. Loneliness is not a city of 9 million people, all coming and going, at least not to me anyway. I’ve always felt welcomed here, that anything goes and no-one judges you for how you look, what you wear and best of all, you won’t get idle tittle-tattles gossiping about you on your visit to the supermarket. I love the hubbub, the smells, the noise, the chaos. So it’s expensive (stupidly so), I’ll probably never be able to afford a house and if you believe what you read in the papers you run the risk of being stabbed every time you step outside you own front door. I should say my second most favourite place in the whole world to live would have probably be New York. As you can see, hand-on heart I’m a city gal.
I loved Earl’s Court the minute I stepped out of the underground and onto the crazily frenetic Earl’s Court Road. Having moved to London fairly soon after graduating to study a pgDip in Journalism, I wanted to live near-ish to where the course took place in Bayswater, but didn’t really know London at all. So I looked at a map, saw something that looked vaguely nearby and spent the next few months getting completely befuddled by all the different underground trains going into and out of Earls Court station. My flat was, to put it kindly, appalling. I’m writing this now in the spare bedroom of my current home, and my whole flat was not much larger than this room. It had one of those platform beds with a ladder up to it, no oven with just 2 hob rings, water that was so terrible you couldn’t even filter it and the tiniest shower room which I shared with my slightly eccentric lady next-room owner. It wasn’t even a shower, just a cupboard with a dribble, and she used to take VERY infrequent showers with the light OFF!

A flat of very similar size to mine, just much nicer! *image courtesy of The Mirror*
Despite the downsides to the “flat”, it DID have a balcony and I have the most amazing memories of my time there, as my fab BFFs and tweeters @ajlangley, @dan_martin and @dinabehrman would certainly attest to. There was A LOT of wine drunk in the flat, a crazy amount of people crammed in some of the time (I think the record of people sleeping over was 5, like sardines we were). Most importantly, it was mine, albeit rented. My step out into the big, wide world and I was PROUD. As the journalism fell by the wayside in my quest to pay bills and support my then-boyfriend, I took up a job which I still do to this day. Next January will mark 10 years in that job. Yikes. I’m a bit of sticker once I get my feet under the table!
Leaving Earls Court I moved slightly west to Olympia which is at the non-posh end of High St Kensington, and then onto Hammersmith where I moved into a beautiful flat with the man who is now my better half, Mr DCB. In 2010, after much crying from me, I said goodbye to my West London life and we moved south of the river (shock, horror!) to Forest Hill which is where we are now in a lovely (still rented) little Victorian terrace house. And despite my initial fears, I love it here too, just as much as I loved West London.
In the decade that’s passed in this brilliant city, I’ve studied, worked, loved, lost, made amazing friends, partied, married, set up a business, become a Samaritan and a part-time market-trader! I’ve changed and grown as the city has changed and grown with me and as I have my faults, so too does the place I call home. Yet it’s the place that’s supported me, held me when I’ve been down and picked me up by its very verve and relentless energy. I’ve learned so much about people, about myself, about life whilst I’ve lived here and I could spend every day if I had the time discovering something new here. I would defend London to the ends of the earth. Maybe, just maybe, that’s because I’m a Londoner.
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